JDM96SpecCTR

ok look im gettin frustrated quick...im puttin power into my 96 hatch....i put in teh whole ex floor harness, then connected the motors adn switches etc on the drivers side, without puttin them into the door cuz i wanted to test it. at that time i didnt have the window relay, so the windows didnt work. the power lock did work fine tho.
so then i connected the pass side door harness and all pieces...the locks worked once, and died. i checked the fuses adn nothing looked bad.
then i got the relay and put it in, but still no windows working....WTF
i searched the site and everyone tells everyone what they need and everyoen that did it doesnt give details how they did it...please someone help my hatch is gutted right now, nothin but 2 seats and the upper dashboard and i dont liek that...

what could be missing?? i ahve everythign....oh one thing....theres one plug from the EX floor harness i dont know where it goes....its a white plug, im not sure how many pins but its bout an inch wide....the service manual says it goes to dash harness, but i cant find a spot for it...i dunno if this is part of the problem..someone gotta know where that goes tooooooo