Sorry to bump in on the thread but am having almost identical issues. Tasp72 which relay was it that you replaced and where was it located. I've searched around with mixed results. Were you referring to the Starter Cut Relay referenced in the diagrams? If so a rough location would be helpful.

Thanks Much!

 

Need lots more info, MM&Y of your car, auto or 5 speed, any mods???
What tread are you bumping?
Please explain what is or is not happening with your car?? 94

 

You didn't bump in on any thread. If you did we'd have an idea what you're talking about.