someone please give me advise? i have no choice but to accept this car it was my wifes and she is upgrading to an accord so i get the civic and get rid of the gti i know or so ive heard that these cars are a big waste of time and they cannot be modded to get power from them is this true? i got an aem cold air intake for it but i cant seem to find any exhuast parts headers or anything honestly i'd like to have a v-tec put in it is this possible to do? and or is there anywhere i could get a header and better cam just to get the sound and a little more pull out of it it is a 5 speed so thats one good thing about a wife that drives stick. thanks for any help you can provide