First off, I searched through all of the many post on this topic and I found some helpful info. But things still aren't adding up for me

I feel like I'm back in kindergarten trying to fit square pegs into round holes! I used the factory instructions and the ones provided by Password JDM on their website. Can anyone confirm that the dash harness I have is for a 99-00 civic? I know #3 goes to the actual switch.



I know that either 1,2 or 4 plugs in above the fuse box, but which one?



I found these two guys "blue-taped" behind the fuse box, but nothing from the harness I have fits.



Both sets of instruction say to unplug this harness and plug the supplied on in it's place, but nothing in my supplied harness fits in there. Plus I found out in THIS thread that nothing from the DEPO harness should plug in there. WTF?



And finally, I found these two "blue-taped" on the right side of the steering column. Do I need these for the fogs?

 

#1 - #2 on accessory slots (#4 on actual fuse box)
#2 - #1 on accessory slots (#5 on actual fuse box)
#3 - Switch
#4 - Blue taped brown connector near firewall, behind fuse box

 

Thanks!