I have to start with an apology. I am posting a question about a "not a Honda" car which needs some loving - the parent forum is not very active and I have had tremendous love and support here in the past and feel I will get some answers here. Here is the video recording of my 2006 Buick Rendezvous CXL (3.5L AWD, automatic, 251,789 miles under her belt).
Happy to provide additional details to whoever decides to bite, but will not feel offended if chastised for posting this here - posting under introduction as a precaution to avoid any confusions.