those fog lights are factory option fog lights from honda.
mine in particular have the blue coating put on after they were bought.


-on topic:: i didnt have the plug in relay.
I had to cut off the brown harness (male section pictured) and run the wires to a 4 pin relay myself.
There were three Red/yellow wires instead of the one shown on the diagram, is it ok to couple them into one wire going into its port on the relay? cause..i dunno how else to do it.

(after wiring it keep buzzing when i try to turn it on and the switch's light doesnt come on)

 

i think you cut the wrong one. look under the dash again and see if you can find another similiar plug.

 

looks like i cut the right one. lights come on. aren't too bright and the relay keeps buzzing. but i just realized i picked up a 30A relay instead of a 15...back to radioshack y0.
on me.

 

wait, you WANT the 30 amp one; that's just the max ratings, and the fogs push a lotta amps. it's buzzing? I'd check to make sure the wires were hooked up to the right pins on the relay....does the relay click when you turn the fog switch on?

 

it clicks when i turn on the lights. but then when i press the actual switch on, it starts buzzing.

 

did you put the actual switch on the high-power side of the relay? The relay shouldn't click just when the lights come on, it should when the lights come on AND when the switch is turned on! Sounds like it's shorting out, going straight from batter to ground. Let me get home and I'll grab a relay pack and draw you out a diagram for the wiring.