is this an actual trailing arm bushing, because i need to replace my trailing arm bushing and im 100% sure the one thats on the car doesnt look like this

Energy Suspension Rear Trailing Arm Bushing Sets, part #ENS-16-7107R

 

The ES rear trailing arm bushings do indeed replace the OEM ones. Note that the OEM ones will probably have to be burned out and the ES ones will have to be pressed in.