How do I remove the dealer master loop harness on automaster am1. I have a CR-V and would like to reprogram. this was not removed when vehicle purchased. I am now out of state and local Honda dealer will only do it for a charge. instruction manuel says "This 2-pin black connector when removed in disarmed state from the control module will reset the system back to allow the full set of customer settings and remove the dealer remote from memory. Is this all I have to do or is there an actual harness to remove?