Ok so I found out my problems on my own as to why my car would start then stall; I replaced the main relay. However, here's what pisses me off:
The main relay connector was hanging down and already out of place, so it wasnt hard to find....lol However now I cant find where it was originally suppose to go. I have seen the DIY's on the internet for ef's and ej's, but none for eh's! So where the hell does it sit? Reason I am so concerned is b/c the only spot that it can sit right now is making the plug very hot compared to the others which are further back from this one. And I do not want the soddered parts to crack again from the heat.

Thanks

 

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