So when I start my car there's a awful grinding sound. I just replaced the starter tho and the fly wheel was fine and this doesn't happen on every start usually only when the car has been sitting for awhile like over night or awhile I'm at work. Theres alot more.... When the car starts my rpms fluctuate from about 1500 to almost dying out. Does this for about 30 secs to a min. While that's happening I can hear the relays behind the glove box clicking ( I know it's them cuz I put my hand on them and could feel it). Then after almost a min of that the car idles the check engine light is on my rpm and temp gauge stop working. When I drive the car and I accelerate at a certain rpm or depending how hard I get on it looses power like there's nothing there. When Im at a stop and go to make a turn my power steering feels like it's taking a **** basically dieing out winning you know that sound.
Like I said I replaced the starter. I also put a new battery new ect sensor new thermostat cleaned the throttle body new air filter. I also sprayed some card cleaner Ard the manifold no signs of a blown gasket there new spark plugs and checked all the fuses and relays except the 2 that were clicking behind the glove back red and blue one. Can't figure how to get them out. I know it's a whole lot. I got screwed and got a good amount of money into already. Can someone please help me out if really highly appreciate it and the best part for last. No one can connect to my obd2 port. Always says scan dtc or can't connect with vehicle
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