I have a 2002 honda accord f23A1 4cyl.
I've removed all wiring, hoses, axles and bolts attaching transmission to engine. Also remove all 8 bolts from flex wheel. But tranny still won't pull away from engine. Confuse and frustrated. Any help would greatly be appreciated. Thanks an advance.

 

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Where is it not separating from?
Push the TC away from the flex plate, verify it is not sticking to the flex/drive plate.
IIRC there are four bolts from the transmission side(top and front), and four from the engine side(bottom and rear around the diff/rear mount bracket).
Verify you have these out before trying to prise the two apart.
There are a couple of bolts on the rear engine mount bracket that pass through the mount and engine and thread into the transmission. These can be hard to see with the oil filter still in place.
If when prising the two components apart the two snap back together, there is still a bolt attaching the assembly together.