Ok, so my upstream o2 sensor went out and I bought a replacement but the plugs on both are different. The plug on the new sensor looks like this

And the plug on the old one looks like this


The plug that goes into the harness looks like this:


So, basically, I don't know if the oxygen sensor I bought is wrong or if someone replaced the plug into the harness with the wrong plug or what the hell is going on. I've bought 2 o2 sensors, 1 was a Bosch and it was the same plug as the harness and this new one is also the same as the harness; both being different plugs than the one that is in there now.
Idk if anything I said makes sense, I've never replaced an o2 sensor before.

 

AFAIK, the correct sensors should be male and the connectors from the wiring harness female.
So it looks like your wiring harness clip is wrong (I think)

Did you order Bosch #13007?
or one of these:
13249
13363
15228
13025


You could try to splice the wires, it's a simple re-pin, right?
Maybe take the old female end of the O2 sensor and put it on the wiring harness.
Try checking if the o2 sensors (old and new) clip into each other.

 

Originally I ordered the Bosch 13007 which if I'm not mistaken in downstream...

 

13371 is the ex upstream, looks like you got the DX/LX/HX cvt one

 

Does 13371 have the male or female plug?

 

From Rockauto.com

13371 OE Type - Exact Fit; Heated; Wires: 4; Length (in): 12.4
For EX model; Upstream; Engine Code D16Y8; Coupe

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