I have a 95 Civic EX coupe that I just swapped a jdm h22a into. The swap is all but finished except for re-pinning the P13 ECU. For some reason I can seem to get the female pins on the end of the wires Im adding to fit into the grey plastic plugs that plug into the ECU, is there a trick to this? Also how do you remove the female pins from the grey plugs? I noticed there are 2 different size male ends on the P13, do you remove both of those female pins from the plug the same way? Any help would be great.