so im pretty new and unfamilliar with this part of everything
its a p28 ecu with the moates socket kit with the hulog connection, but i cant get my laptop to connect to my ecu at all... like i said i dont know much about this so i might just be missing something dumb but i have no idea

 

You must run the same datalogging software as your binary file is running etc.
Example, if your chip is a crome binary, you must have the proper datalogging code enabled on the chip & you must use what ever software available such as crome pro or freelog to datalog.

Datalogging is pointless without a wideband oxygen sensor.

Do your self a favor & buy a hondata s300, neptune or ectune rtp style system to remove all of the guess work out of the tuning/datalogging.