ok so when my 93 h23's motor is cold it starts fine but when its warmed up or normal running temperature it wont start.....i mean it'l sit there and try to turn all day and sound likes it wants to start but it just wont unless then motor is cold. any thoughts?

 

Possibly the main relay.

 

where would i find that on the car.....yeah i know something probably everyone knows but i'm new to this so....

 

Definitely sounds like the main relay. Here's a picture of what it looks like:


It's located under the steering column up under the dash. It is a bit hard to see up there, but you should spot it. It's a bit of a bitch to take out of the plastic cover, but if you just wedge in a very small flat head screw driver on one side of the relay and gently work it out of the case.

You can get a pretty good deal on a new replacement from hondaautomotiveparts.com - hope that helps!

 

could also be your starter. easy test is to have a friend bang on the starter with a flashlight while you crank it, but try this only when it is giving you problems(after you warm it up). if it starts = bad starter.