okay here is the deal. you guys don't know me well but i've been reading the posts on this forum for quite some time now and being that i respect most of the opinions of you fellas, i have a dilemma here and was just looking for some thoughts or opinions.

it all starts off with this girl. we work together so you can already tell it's gonna be complicated. we click instantly and begin the whole going out, flirting, talking almost everynight routine. i dont' know if i was a gentleman and waited too long to make a move, but just as we were getting reeallly close, she has a change of heart and blows me off in the biggest way imaginable. a month later, i'm doing alright. still gotta see her face around work and online, so it's not easy. but just recently, i heard that she's been 'talking' to one of my friends..who also works with us. once again, complications. i am not happy about this at all...what's a fella to do? i've known the guy for 6 years without any sort of drama. the girl i've only known for 4months, but we all work in the same place. just looking for some opinions, support, tell me i'm stupid...anything.

granted i'm only 20 and she is 16. should i even bother with this?

ahh thanks for listening guys. by the way i have a 98LS ...h&r springs, koni shocks, type r sway about to be installed...along with shaved emblems and OEM bodykit within a month..woohoo

 

you just answered your own question SHE'S 16 she is imature, and she can't make up her mind, and as for your friend you should talk to him about it, he should understand how you feel


[Modified by xlr8 si, 4:33 PM 3/1/2002]

 

jail bait bro.....i did that once and never never again

 

haha I feel you on the jail bait man.. but, believe it or not I was actually interested in her as a person the other thing, however, was just a bit lower on my priority list. Should I play the good friend and not interefere with his game?

 

hahah, thats a tough one. she's just a tease, and she's illegal. move on.

Dont worry bout your boy...but if he is your age, you should remind him that he could goto jail. bitch might get all fatal and call the cops herself, I have seen it happen before.

but seriously, just move on bro. some nice tight *** isn't worth jail and then having "megans law" following you around for the rest of your life.

 

sorry but I agree with everyone else , , , JAILBAIT , and second are you willing to risk a bud that has lasted for 6 years over a chick you have known for 4 months . Um no , there are plenty of other chicks out there THAT know what they want .

 

hmmm...first off you should post this mess in off topic, or members forum...secondly, this type of **** is going to happen to you all your life...it all depends on how you handle it, that is what makes what type of person you are in the end...honestly, dont let this type of **** get to you...but on the other hand, dont blow the whoel thing off and act like you dont care...i mean, in all honesty...if you guys werent really dating you have no say in what goes on, but if you were...just straight up ask her what the deal is!

 

word, thanks for the replies guys. just today, my friend and i had a talk outside our workplace. we were both respectful and understanding of each other's situation. mainly, we were both concerned about not letting this ruin our friendship. so in the end, i can't really do a thing about it, and thus must walk away. i told him i wasn't going to wish them luck or anything. so it looks like we're cool...i just hate the girl's guts now.

my apologies for posting this in the wrong place too. didn't really know where to post.