any suggestions for wheels ? im looking for either a 18x8.5 or 19x8.5 / 5x114.3 / offset +45

i really wanna go with work d9r's but if i do the 19's im scared im gonna **** the rim up if i hit a pothole, or have too much rubbing

its my daily so im not looking to do racing, etc but i dont want to buy new tires every 3 months