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Car information is in signature. Ill take a video hopefully this weekend. The transmission wont shift if I'm trying to slowly accelerate. The car will slowly accelerate when i push the pedal down, but if i want to accelerate quicker and push the accelerator down further it wont accelerate any quicker until about 75% throttle and if I'm not in first it will down shift because of the throttle. When it shifts its slow and the engine wraps up, finally catches, and i look like a jack *** ricer pulling off a stop light. It goes into all gears just fine, just shifts slow and extremely irregularly. Fluid looks clean, when car is cold fluid level is just at the bottom of the dipstick, when warmed up fluid level is right at the top of full. Engine and transmission have an estimated 100,000 miles. The transmission shifts at 6000RPM at WOT even though it came with the H22A. Not sure if thats a symptom or not, but i only get about 500RPM's of VTEC. This problem has been happening since this summer at least and I think its getting worse. Its about time to have the transmission flushed so I'll get around to that soon. Thank you for any help.