pull out ur gauge cluster its the orange wire on the right hand side. u can find out for sure by putting a volt meter to it. put it on Ohms, put the car on drive let go of the gas ( DONT GIVE IT GAS) just let it go on its own and when the car starts to move the ohms should go up. Thats where I found mine for my GPS.
The sensor itself is located on the top of the transmission. If you remove your air intake tube you should be able to see it bolted on the top of the transmission. It's to the rear of the engine compartment closer to the firewall.
are you havin tranny problems? i got suckered into al long time ago on my 96 accord by autozone. my engine light had a vss code,so they told me to replace my vcc, but it was still the tranny failed. just a heads up if your goin through tranny problems.