Well, most all of the credit goes to g_man80 who helped me out a lot. But basicly...
1 - The harness should have one male headlight plug that plugs into the passenger side oem headlight plug.

2 - The harness has two female headlight plugs that plug into the projector headlights.

3 - Each female headlight plug has a black ground wire on it that must be grounded under a bolt or screw that contacts the metal of the car body.

4 - There are two red ground looking wires that extend from the fuses on the harness. They both should be bolted to the (+) terminal on the battery.

5 - The drivers side oem female plug is unused with this installation.

Once done this way, the low beam should make just the outer projector beam illuminate and the high beam will make the hight and low beam illuminate at the same time. Looks really cool when I did it to my civic. Anyway, of course i'm broke so do this at your own risk. But I did it on my car and it worked great. Again, thanks g_man80.