help i brought these jdm mirrors i have the relay but what goes to what where does the relay go and how should i splice the wires also the seem to be a little loose when i drive they flap a little back and i have to keep pushing them back i put them on without the relay are they supposed to be loose will they tighten up if i use the relay to control them help!!!!

 

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search is your friend.. plenty of threads covering this... prolly why your not getting any responses