ok everything is working fine in the motor (dx). but the starter won't click. i know it has to do with wiring. what does the spade connector look like? there's on wire left undone in the whole harness and is looks like it slides on something...what can that be and where does it go? pics? thank you
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Same thing happened on mine. Try to short out the starter first. Just get a somewhat beefy alligator clip; fix it on the relay clip of the starter, and touch the other end to the positive battery post. Be sure that the car is in neutral, and just to be safe, make sure the key is off. If the starter works then you have either bad wiring or a bad starter relay. I just hooked up a push button switch...

 

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