How much should it cost to get my flywheel resurfaced, and whatever else has to be done to it, before i put my new clutch in?

 

You'll probably pay anywhere from $30-50 for it to be resurfaced, just whip out the local phone book and start calling machine shops that are willing to do it. Don't pay anymore than $50 though.

On another note, if you're not totally strapped for cash, go ahead and try to find a Type R flywheel, or an aftermarket one. I kept my stock flywheel when I got a new clutch and I really regret it.