For the past few weeks our 2011 Odyssey has died while idle, waiting for the kids at school, a few times at full stops at red lights and several other times during traffic. It has died while driving in traffic. It died on the highway once, a very scary moment. Some days, driving around town and it won't stall or die at all.

After the van dies, I could switch it to "P" park and restart with no problems. Starting is not a problem after it has died. I've been reading online and possible issues could be the main relay?
I've looked under the driver side and can't find anything that looks like the main relay from the online photos.

Does anyone have a 2011 Odyssey can can point to where main relay is or have any suggestions as to what is causing the issues?


From under the driver side. Is the main relay on here?