My 2002 civic i believe has a bad fuel pump relay becuase there are times when it wont start becuase the fuel pump isnt turning on but if i reach down and tap on the relay a couple times then it will kick on and the car will start, the crazy part is when its running and your cruising down the road and without warner the engine dies, Does that soumd like the relay? Also theres two relays connected to eachother. witch one is the fuel pump relay?

 

I would replace the one you're tapping , they may be in blocks is that what you mean by connected to each other ?

 

Get a Haynes/Chilton Book. It's so much help when trying to find specific fuses/relays. You can find them at Pep Boys maybe. Or definitely off Amazon.

 

Haynes manuals can be purchased on line or you can pay a subscription and view most things on their web site , If you buy one you get a 10 day subscription to another manual of your choice , So I printed some of the good parts to it .