theres like 1000 sets of wheels in my area 4x100 16x7 +35 offset but they are all 16's anyone here fit them i have a 1.25 inch drop and am scared they wont fit

 

35 ~ 40 is a good range for these cars.
It gets scary when you drop 2 or more inches, but at 1.25 I think you are going to be ok with the +35.
+38 would be better - just take some caution with the tire selection using the +35.

+40 will might rub inside on the front control arms unless you have swapped out for EX, Si-R or maybe DA knuckles.
The curve in the control arms are different.

 

IMO anything bigger than a 15 looks off on this body style. A small wheel with a meaty tire is my ideal look.