couple times a week got issues starting car most times its after work.i put the ignition to on position wait till the main relay clicks off start it,motor runs for a second then dies.i try again but no click from main relay.. it takes couple of minutes trying to start it, playing with the ignition from acc to on to start till she runs with out dying.

 

Have you replaced the main relay? Or tested the fuel pump when it won't start?
My buddies car has similar issues and those are usually the first signs I check.
People also gave me good advice to check ALL the grounds.

 

that sounds like a bad or going bad main relay i agree with didly check all grounds

 

If cleaning/tightening the G101 ground on the thermostat housing or resoldering the main relay doesn't help, then the ECU may be bad.

 

ok i check those out