what about a short shifter **** (sideways) that is parallel to the ground?
any ideas how that would feel or where I can take a look at what they look like?

 

you mean like the hurst type shift ****? I dont think it would work well in honda application. The princible behind those things is for old school muscle car and truck trannies that have long *** and difficult throws, so you can put more muscle into it, just not necessary in a honda. but if thats what you like i guess go for it. I know hurst and b&m have universal ones, probably other brands as well that would work,