im going to attempt to remove my head tomorrow morning i have the valve cover off so is their a diagram i can see on where the head bolts are and wut else i need to take off

 

get a helms manual

 

I agree with the above, a helm manual is very valuable for jobs like this and many others.

Also, you didn't mention the year or model of your Accord...

in the Accord FAQ though you'll find someone did a write-up on how to replace the head gasket on a F22B2, that will show you what you need to do to get the head off.

 

why thank you so much im going to now and im really sorry i forgot the important part haha its a 96 accord vtec 4cyl sedan