does anyone know were i can get a itr rear upper strut bar

 

These are hard as hell to find. Check marketplace.

 

http://shop.ebay.com/items/_W0..._mdoZ


not sure how real they are tho

 

will there be difference between real or replica?

 

theres always a difference between real ( quality) and replica, my guess is them ebay ones look slightly different, probably not made out of as good of metal, but unless your car is a full race car i wouldn't worry about it, but thats up to you

 

here you go bro,
http://hondamarketplace.com/zerothread?id=2403540