ok i believe the correct way to wire the lights is so that the light for that side is only on when you signal.....i plan to run a relay for each side...i just can't figure out where to tap into 12v for the control to my relay...any help would be great...thanks

 

you should have 2 flashers in the fusebox dedicated to left and right side blinking. if you tap into these before the flasher and not after youd have the proper signal to run your relays. if you did it after the flasher, it would blink like the signals.

 

yea thats what I was trying to do but there arent any wires before flashers ... that part of the circuit is integrated into the dash fuse box...