(new within last 12 months: starter, plugs, coil, rotor, fuel pump/filter, air filter, timing belt)

Hi All,
Earlier I threw this problem out to this tech savvy group. Someone mention that it might be the "main relay" yet others said no. Not wanting to overlook anything I thought it would be best to check out this relay. Truth be told, there is so many fuses and wires and boxes under the dash that I wouldn't know it if I saw it.
So... does anyone of you have a link to a picture and/or a website describing this relay? If I could only eyeball it I'd be in much better shape. In the meantime, if anyone has any other ideas I'd be happy to listen to you. Thank you. Ray

 

Here is a good link for main relay troubleshooting with pics.

http://techauto.bravehost.com/