ok ive tried almost everything but i dont wana give up i love my accord.I was checking on the solenoids myself following a guide on a website and use the step of connecting a positve wire and a ground to the battery and conecting it to the solenoid i hear the clicks that im supposed to hear,but when i have it connected to the car meaning normal when i change gears from parking threw first i hear no clicks.What can this mean ?

ps the guide i use is from this webpage http://techauto.te.funpic.org/transmission.php

 

I had to go find your original threads to know why you were checking the solenoids to begin with. You've replaced your solenoids numerous times and the problem persists. That means, <U>the problem is not with the solenoids themselves</U>.

The original thread you created about this problem has suggestions that you should follow.
https://honda-tech.com/zerothread?id=1761127
https://honda-tech.com/zerothread?id=1763022

Check your wiring. You said you only checked the wiring at the connectors to the solenoids, which you also said happened to be rusted. You've gone through 2 TCUs, 4 solenoids, and 2 transmissions trying to figure this problem out. So what's left? The wiring...