i dont know if this goesin the appearance forum or what not.. but today i was driving and got my first curb scrape.. pretty pissed about it... but is there a way to buff the scratches out or whaT?

 

Unless they're very minor surface scratches (which is unlikely), they aren't going to "buff out". If you want them repaired, you will have to refinish the wheel, either as a DIY or at a shop that specializes in such work. You can also try touching up the area, but the results are rarely undetectable, and often don't look all that much better than the damage itself.