Ive had my 9000k hid on my 4th gen and im noticing that when I turn them on they are dim then slowly get brighter befor they looked like they blew up then got dim then brighter and once in awhile it might take a sec or two for them to turn on when I hit the switch is this asign that the ballast are going out or what

 

Do you turn them on when your at a stop or moving?

if you turn them on when your stopped and they dim out then its just that your alternator isnt moving fast enough yet because your just idling

When your in motion your alt moves with the same speed as your motor

 

It all sounds normal to me. I really cant understand some of your post due to horrible grammar though. All HIDs take time to charge when they are first turned on. Mine do this, and the ballasts make a buzzing sound when they are charging too.

 

sorry I typed it without my glasses I mean like they used to flash real quick then get bright now the hids just start off dim then get bright and they always have that annoying buzzing sound and its only when im turning on my car from a cold start

 

That is exactly what mine do. I think you are fine,
I can understand your concern though. You spent a lot of money on them and want them to work perfect.