my 16 year old cousin chessa"chesnut" vickers was killed in souther california last night in a car accident. big expletive you goes to the driver of the other car, and if i ever see you you would probobly die! you took away my cousin, my best friend, and family. and for that i hope you go to hell, and i hope this sits w/ you for the rest of your life, b/c she will never be back,ever!!!. please pray with my family and i!?!! thanx everyone for your support! much appreciated.
-r.i.p CHESNUT until we see eachother again.
-chris

 

i'm sorry to hear that man... mind sharing what happen?

 

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So you're hoping someone goes to hell for something that for all we know could have been an accident AND you want us to pray for you? When you're hoping someone goes to hell? Sorry for your loss.

 

<TABLE WIDTH="90%" CELLSPACING=0 CELLPADDING=0 ALIGN=CENTER><TR><TD>Quote, originally posted by fastfour &raquo;</TD></TR><TR><TD CLASS="quote"> So you're hoping someone goes to hell for something that for all we know could have been an accident AND you want us to pray for you? When you're hoping someone goes to hell? Sorry for your loss.</TD></TR></TABLE>

Hey bro take it easy on him, he just lost someone who he was very close to and i'm sure he has a bunch of emotions & frustration inside of him, so don't necessarily hold the comment against him nor that's just anger talking at this time ...

chris bro like i said i'm here if you need anything bro. just lemme know !

 

Prayers for the man and his family..

R.I.P. Chessa "Chesnut" Vickers

 

thanks everyone for your help and support its much appreciated...to be honest with you i dont know the whole story. but what i do no is that as of 12/30/05 my little cousin is gone and will never come back, will never grow old, will never, be 18, will never be married, will never have kids of her own, and for that it scares me. but in the end i know everything will b ok, b/c she is in a better place and losing someone that close to me right now, really only makes me that much more anxious to be with her up there. to be able to leave all the daily bullshit behind, sounds like a good plan. bu then i think about what i would be leaving behind like my sister, and i think my love for her, and my willingness to want to watch her grow old, overshadows my true feelings. I love my cousin, but i love my sister (ashley rose,5) that much more and it would be selfish of me to leave her behind like that.

again thanx everyone for your support- chris

 

sorry for your lost.

but why did you post this in the northwest for sale section?

 

to be honest with you i dont even know y. lol. when i opened h-t this was the first page that popped up. i wasnt paying attention it was in too big of a state of depression to realy care.

 

knowing from experience from someone who had this happen to them. The most punishment wouldn't be jail time, or remarks from other people.. It will be with the person who caused the accident. Whenever he/she has a baby, goes to a wedding, to a funeral, or just do anything that has to do with celebrating life in general, it will always be with them that at a time when there judgement wasn't the best or it was impaired, they cut short someone elses ability to have those experiences. And it will tear them apart. I'm sure that your cousin wouldn't want you harboring feelings of anger and rage... although it is normal. LIfe is unfair most of the time.