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Old 05-28-2012, 05:43 PM
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This question is directed to the older crowd, because I used the word women, instead of girls. Is it just a phase that girls goes through or is this biologically wired into them? Why are they so attached to guys that just don't care bout anything. Is there an age limit they reach that they stop acting in this asinine behavior?

I noticed the less I give a damn, the more clingy they get.
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INB4 Internet Alpha Males.
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i wouldnt say bad boy, id say d-bag
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From what I have read there is some biological stuff at play.

Some scientific study a few years back found that women are somewhat genetically pre-disposed to seek out 'Alpha Males' to procreate with, but seek out less dominant personalities to actually settle down with and raise the children with.

So that 'chump' who takes up with a single mom is actually doing nature's bidding.

I'm seeing it unfold right now w/a friend of my wife's. Her son's father is huge, ripped, handsome...and hard-wired for violence and self-destructive behavior. He also treated her like a disposable item.

Her current BF is a super-nice guy, very upstanding, does what he says he's going to do, doesn't use drugs, and is absolutely crazy about her (in a very adult, mature way).
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It's all about confidence. "Bad boys" generally have this.

If you ignore them, some see it as a challenge.
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Before we start saying that women want what they can't have...so do men.

We all break our necks trying to get the attention of people who believe they're too good for us...while ignoring and even abusing the people who aren't making us work for it.

Being 'nice' or placating or sensitive automatically diminishes your perceived social value.

You get lucky by finding someone who can rise above the human nature to want what we don't have and to devalue what we do have.
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I think women are more attracted to short, smart guys who review new cars.

I think there is a study to back that up.
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I do that play all the time
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Before we start saying that women want what they can't have...so do men.
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I find this to very true, because it happened to me before while at a work place. I had a manager who i found no attraction at first. she constantly comes over to my desk and talk/ flirt with me, but I, at first found no interest in her. After a few months of her doing this I ended up being head over hill for her.

I guess once she realised i had a crazy crush on her, her interest in me was completely lost. Strange...
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LOL Kiwi

Only certain kinds of women. I get a lot of attention from Indian/Middle Eastern/Asian women, and outwardly quiet women.

Tallish, skinny-ish blondes? I doubt you could find one on the planet who even remembered my existence
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Yes. They see the skull n bones I have tattooed on my hand and I tell them about how I got it in the joint. INSTANTLY interested. It gets old I guess, the only ones attracted to badboys have problems of their own. I know it's easy to say you area badboy, but I really am. I'll get a chick to drink a 40 and by the time she has spent a couple hours with me, she is dropping the F-bomb way more than she would have to begin with. I guess there is a certain charm that comes along with being a scoundrel. It makes them feel safe, when I say something, they know it is genuine.. Because obviously I could be with just about any other girl walking by. I carry myself like I could whoop anyone's ***, no one messes with me. No one wants to, not just becasue I look pretty mean, but because I have a lot of charm I have developed over the years. In general, women like men..Not boys. Women already have 1 ***** that keeps them pretty occupied, they really don't need another one.
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The answer to your question is yes.
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The answer to your question is yes.
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In general, women like men..Not boys.
All your bragging aside I agree w/this.

The girls/women I know who actually like 'boys' have issues of their own (horrible self-esteem or a restless perfectionism that can never be met) and are still single.
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It is true that the majority of women prefer "bad" boys even knowing they are going to get ****ed over and should find a "good" guy. I've asked several to explain it and they said they don't know why they always make that choice even knowing they are the ones to get hurt in the end.

I myself have a bad habit of stealing girlfriends. It's like I can still get what I want without the commitment. I have trouble settling and I get bored with things/people rather quickly. Once I've been there done that it's like ok how can I take this to a different level of excitement? Most can't satisfy because they are so monotonous, like the time I ended up watching how Ferrari's were built on the TV across the room with a girl on top of me lol.

Started straying from topic in the paragraph thing above but to sum this all up, there's a reason all the bitches loved The Fonz. He was a bad *** mudda****a!
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Some women are, yes.

Usually the kind you don't take home to mother.
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All your bragging aside I agree w/this.

The girls/women I know who actually like 'boys' have issues of their own (horrible self-esteem or a restless perfectionism that can never be met) and are still single.
Says the guy who posts video of 2012 CSI review.
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The way women are wired is so weird.

Example. I took this very attractive girl out to our first date. And when she touched me on the shoulder to ask a question I playfully said "Whoa whoa whoa! take it easy woman... this is only our first date and you're all molesting me" For some odd *** reason she laugh and we hit it off good. What is the psychological behind that?
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bitches love the ****
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Usually that is the case but the relationships are usually very unstable and never last long.
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bitches love the ****
Do you even have one ?
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Says the guy who posts video of 2012 CSI review.
I'm confused as to what that has to do w/this topic.

@Nameless Warrior, SIRIUS has all the answers lol
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The way women are wired is so weird.

Example. I took this very attractive girl out to our first date. And when she touched me on the shoulder to ask a question I playfully said "Whoa whoa whoa! take it easy woman... this is only our first date and you're all molesting me" For some odd *** reason she laugh and we hit it off good. What is the psychological behind that?
Lol, perhaps she understood it as the joke it was intended to be?

Jokes like that would get me in big trouble in Russia. Those girls are very serious and their humor is different and often times they couldn't understand it at all


To answer the question, yes girls love ******** and bad boys
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