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Old 03-29-2019, 01:36 AM
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Ok so hereís the deal. I own my own home and my Girlfriend at the time and I had broken up and then l lived alone for a few months happily. Wonít go into that lol. Until one of my good friends finds out my situation and asks if his girlfriend can rent a room in my house because she was having trouble finding a place of her own last minute (rental space is limited here).

Of course I agree because I know his GF and she seems nice enough and women are generally easier to share a space with. Everything was cool for a year and a half but now my friend is pretty much living here. He sleeps here and spends a lot of time during the day after work in my home; probably as much as me.

As for rent, itís pretty cheap but I donít wanna ask her to pay more rent because itís sending the message that heís welcome to live here. Before he would hang out and see his way out when ďbed timeĒ was near. I donít want him sleeping here especially days at a time. Itís going to lead to him bringing his belongings and permanently living here. Is it irrational of me to think like this? Am I exaggerating?
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Old 03-29-2019, 02:59 AM
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Bang him. That will show her.
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Old 03-29-2019, 03:10 AM
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Talk to them.
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Don’t tell us, tell him
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If I were not married and had my own place, no way in hell would I ever rent out a room to anyone. This is one of the reasons why. Talk to them.
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Old 03-29-2019, 03:35 AM
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Donít talk to them, post on the internet instead
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We need to see a few pictures of your friends GF before we provide any additional advice.
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"Roommates boyfriend overstaying. Help!"


Relax, you did the right thing. You came to the best place for help.
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Old 03-29-2019, 03:44 AM
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Tell your buddy to either pay you rent of gtfo. If he doesn't want to then you will have to let him know he's going to cause his gf to have to find a new place as they are cramping your jdm.

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We need to see a few pictures of your friends GF before we provide any additional advice.
This. No more advice until we get paid
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Old 03-29-2019, 03:52 AM
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Your buddy moved his gf into your house and is staying rent free.

You are getting cucked and you ain't even hit it yet
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Bang her. That will show him.
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Tell your buddy to either pay you rent of gtfo.
This.
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Old 03-29-2019, 04:33 AM
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Old 03-29-2019, 04:34 AM
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Sounds like a good ole fashioned threesome is in order!
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Sounds like a good ole fashioned threesome is in order!
All they need is some of that Natural Light pink lemonade **** to get things started.
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All they need is some of that Natural Light pink lemonade **** to get things started.
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Old 03-29-2019, 04:55 AM
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All they need is some of that Natural Light pink lemonade **** to get things started.
Sprinkle in some of that Unicorn fart **** and we have ourselves a good ole fashioned gangbang
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Tell your buddy to either pay you rent of gtfo. If he doesn't want to then you will have to let him know he's going to cause his gf to have to find a new place as they are cramping your jdm.



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The first thing CAN97SH said, he needs to pay rent or more of utilities because now you’re paying 50% utilities when you should only pay 33.3%. I did the same thing renting a room to a buddy of mine. He started talking to this white trash chick and next thing you know she’s there 90% of the time including staying overnight. Waking up at 4am loudly to get ready for her crappy job and not paying a dime to me. After a couple months I just told them I was trying to help my buddy out and that I didn’t need the money, but now you two need to start actively looking for somewhere else. They were out within 6 weeks and I got to enjoy peace and quiet. No more Busch light all over the house or leftover Taco Bell in the fridge.

Talk with them. It’s your place. Your rules.

As much as I felt like an *** wanting to say something, it was needed. We’re still friends and unfortunately even invited to their wedding this summer.
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Are you still in contact with said buddy?
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Old 03-29-2019, 05:19 AM
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Letting a buddy's GF stay at my place when I'm single

How on Earth did you think that was gonna go? Tell your buddy to take her into HIS pad, why is she staying at YOURS?
If you tell me your buddy still lives at home with mom and dad I'm gonna lose my **** lol
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Op Tryna get some alone time with his buddy's gf
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What's it like to be a cuck?
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Op Tryna get some alone time with his buddy
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