bigtrobbins 02

Ok so over the last month or so my car has been haven a issues with starting when I turn the key over it takes 5 to 10 seconds before it wants to start some times I have to turn the key a few times then it starts..well last week I went to go to work tried to start an it didnt start for an hour after a hour of turning key over multiple times it started well today it hasnt started at all ive been fooling with it all day and nothing its not the battery I used my meter its 12v I tested the starter an its gettn 12 I took it had it tested tested good I check voltage to startn wire when key turn over its get 12v I tried crossing the starter if im doing it right but when I did the start spins but it dont sound like its hiting flywheel but when I turn key the car does nothing ive been messing with itall day and im running out of ideas it really makin me mad please somebody help me out as I what it could be