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Old 03-19-2017, 07:29 AM   #1
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It was girls’ day out, and Diana Carrillo had abandoned her desire to eat healthy well before she, her sister and two friends got to the Southern California restaurant. The destination: Saint Marc, an upscale spot in the seaside city of Huntington Beach, where Carrillo had been once before.

As the waiter walked up to the table, Carrillo figured she’d splurge on the grilled-cheese sandwich and pay the $2 up-charge to add some of the restaurant’s signature bacon. To start, maybe she’d share a watermelon and cheese plate with her sister and friends.

But the mood soured quickly after the waiter appeared. Before he could serve the four Latina women, he said, they needed to show proof of residency. “I need to make sure you’re from here,” he said.

Flummoxed, the four women handed over their IDs. But as what was happening sank in, they fumed. “I looked at my sister and [my friend], and I said, did he really just say that?”

A few moments later, they walked over to the manager and told him what had happened. He offered them a separate section and his business card to make things right — but they had already decided to leave.

Still livid a few hours later, Carrillo, a 24-year-old business analyst from Orange County, Calif., posted about the incident on Facebook:

For a few seconds I thought maybe he was being a smart a– or joking but the fact that he said ‘I need to make sure you’re from here before I serve you’ was completely unacceptable.

How many others has he said this too? I hope this employee is reprimanded for his actions. No establishment should tolerate discriminatory actions from their employees. PLEASE SHARE WITH YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS!

People did. In a week, Carrillo’s post had been shared more than 600 times, and more than 100 people had posted comments.

Seeing the social media backlash, the restaurant’s management contacted Carrillo that Monday. They offered a VIP experience at the restaurant and pledged to donate 10 percent of the weekend’s proceeds to a nonprofit organization of the group’s choice. The four women declined the lavish meal, but asked that the restaurant donate the money to Orange County Immigrant Youth United.




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That's just over the top.

Does he ask the Nigerian High Commissioner for proof of residency?

That's just too, too bad on several levels.
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Im ok with this.
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Server should be served his pink slip, to go.
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Server should be served his pink slip, to go.
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Nah not really.

If the server gets fired Im ok with that. If the server is commended by the owner I am ok with that too.

Let the market put them out of business.
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Maybe the waiter found it condescending that the women were perhaps speaking spanish among themselves.
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Maybe the waiter found it condescending that the women were perhaps speaking spanish among themselves.
Maybe they were born in Los Angeles and only speak English
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Maybe they were born in Los Angeles and only speak English
This is Los angeles, a city that has many spanish communities. And you're telling me that these women decided not to speak their language. Where in America it's considered a bonus if you speak spanish, come one XTRAC1
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I can't imagine what kind of dick you'd have to be to pull something like that.
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But as what was happening sank in
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I bet you any kind of money this tard expected a tip at the end of the meal, too!
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Lulz, the restaurant failed to control the optiks.
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Im ok with this.
if they weren't residents, and only visiting the country, what then? Dude has no legal right to demand PoR, not to mention immorality of his character to demand such a thing.

I would also ​​​​​​​not be surprised if this were fake news either.
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With the way things have been going, I'd put money on the women ordering drinks, the waiter asking for ID, and everything spinning out of that. I'd like to see a response from the waiter.
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if they weren't residents, and only visiting the country, what then? Dude has no legal right to demand PoR, not to mention immorality of his character to demand such a thing.

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That is the business owners choice.

IMHO if they dont want to serve someone they shouldnt have to.
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That is the business owners choice.

IMHO if they dont want to serve someone they shouldnt have to.
the business owner didn't make the call to demand proof of residency. That's on the stupid waiter.

Any business, unless wanting suicide, would have fired the waiter as well. This day and age, stunts like this by subordinates can bankrupt you if you don't nip it in the bud.
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the business owner didn't make the call to demand proof of residency. That's on the stupid waiter.
Which is why the owner will fire them.
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If I was the owner I'd be pissed. This is akin to a waiter arbitrarily deciding who gets to eat at the restaurant with no prior approval from management.

However, this story smells a bit like social media viral BS to me.
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If I owned a restaurant, I'd hunt down this waiter, and give him a job.
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Which is why the owner will fire them.
will he doe?
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If I owned a restaurant, I'd hunt down this waiter, and give him a job.
Gonna be one of them money hating business owners eh? Bold move
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